Put the darn phone down, already!
While you’re reading this, stop and take a look. Assuming you own one, how close to you right
now is your smartphone? If it’s not
within arm’s reach, good for you!
When was the last time you picked it up? How quickly do you look at it in the morning
upon waking up? Is it the last thing you
look at before you close your eyes?
Now, if you have kids…ask the same questions of them. Could they be “addicted” to it?
Although the term “addiction” is usually applied to ingested
substances such as drugs or food, we can also become addicted to things and
behaviors. The pleasure centers in our
brain respond to anything that provides us with a reward, and smartphones are
expert at providing those rewards. Although
it is not “officially” classified as an addiction, many who use smartphones are
increasingly showing signs of addictive habits.
A study conducted on 1,600 professionals by the Harvard
Business School, found the following interesting statistics:
·
70% of subjects reported checking their
smartphone within an hour of waking.
·
56% check their phone within an hour of going to
bed.
·
48% check their Smartphone over the weekend,
including Friday and Saturday nights.
·
51% check their phone continuously while on
vacation.
·
44% reported they would experience "a great
deal of anxiety" if their phone was lost and they could not replace
it for a week.
An estimated 56% of all Americans now own a Smartphone. Videos, Twitter, Facebook updates and the
occasional pleasant e-mail are all ways in which we become “attached” to our
smartphones. Psychologist David
Greenfield, PhD, who specializes in helping people deal with technology
addiction, says that computer technologies can alter your mood and trigger
feelings of pleasure. He notes “It's
like slot machines. We're seeking that
pleasurable hit.”
Although it seems a harmless enough addiction, excessive
smartphone use can begin to interfere with your daily life. And this becomes a larger and larger risk as people
use it more often in ways that cause them to “disconnect” from the real world
around them while “staying connected” to the virtual one online. Examples are easy to find:
·
Actually ignoring a friend at lunch to update a Facebook
status about having lunch with a friend.
·
Texting at the movie theater.
·
A disturbing 10% of smartphone users have
admitted to texting while having sex.
For young adults aged 18-34, this number
jumps up to 20%!
·
Using a smartphone while driving. Texting while driving is 6 times more
dangerous than driving while drunk.
Nicholas Carr, author of the book The Shallows: What the Internet is Doing to Our Brains, believes
that smartphones are interfering with our brains in a way that reduces our
ability to concentrate and think properly. He says, “It's an environment of almost
constant interruptions and distractions. The smartphone, more than any other gadget,
steals from us the opportunity to maintain our attention, to engage in
contemplation and reflection, or even to be alone with our thoughts.”
I’ve talked about this in a past column. Since writing that column, I’ve made a
conscious effort to spend “quiet time” daily.
It’s a wonderful time, but it’s actually difficult to do. What the author states above is very
true—it’s often difficult to allow yourself to concentrate just on…yourself!
The reason for our smartphone addiction is likely tied to
our primitive roots. For much of our
history, it has been very important for us to be aware of everything happening
around us. That instinct probably helped
us survive when we were living in much more difficult (physically) times and
battling the elements and other predators. I'm sure one of the main reasons people tend
to be so compulsive in their use of smartphones is that they can't stand the
idea that there may be a new bit of information out there that they haven't
seen.
In particularly “wired” societies—South Korea, where
smartphone penetration is over 100%, is a great example—the issue of technology
addiction among children is emerging as a national health problem. The South Korean government estimates that 1
in 5 students is now addicted to smartphone use. They define “addiction” as spending 7 or more
hours each day using the device and experiencing distinct signs of
psychological withdrawal—anxiety, insomnia and depression—when forced to go
without. There is already compelling
evidence that smartphone use is not only distracting students from their
studies, it’s also damaging children’s interpersonal skills. For instance, they’re becoming “very bad at
reading facial expressions” as they spend more time texting and less time
interacting face-to-face.
It’s officially the holiday season, folks. If you or a loved one may be dealing with a
smartphone addiction—I’m especially looking at you parents out there—be sure to
address the issue. Let’s get more out of
this holiday season by actually interacting with each other a bit more. When it’s family meal time, the phones get
put away, or at least silenced. The next
time you need to get in contact with someone, call them. Even text messages cause an erosion of
inter-personal skills, and those are skills we need to develop, not ignore.

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